I believe everything happens for a reason.
People change so that you can learn to let go.
Things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they’re right.
You believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself.
And sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.
呃就是来放点屁

I am trying, trying to make life better, trying to calm down and reflect. the person who was wrong lives at ease, reflecting on what he did wrong? Upset, boring, trying to calm wrongmyself down wrongmybut i can't . When is the end? When can i live safely? but because Am I not satisfied? I want to find the person who talk and pour out . I want to feel better.

奶奶6月底退休了，当她其他退休同事尽情奔赴新疆开启长途旅行时，奶奶义无反顾地来了天津帮我们带娃，床头还总是放着几本书翻看，手机里看的视频多是在学做饭。
羡慕妈妈们退休生活的同时，更羡慕的可能是她们对生活的专一和满腔热血了。
昨晚跟奶奶聊天儿，谈到他们那个年代，貌似就是一心一意挣钱养家、供孩子上大学（印象中爸妈也从来都是任劳任怨从不会抱怨生活辛苦的背影），奶奶解释说他们那时候没有我们现在这么大的强度和压力，交通和通讯也都没那么方便，自然也没有那么多对重复工作是否有意义的思考、以及丢掉眼前苟且奔向远方的向往，便已经觉得很幸福。
到底是时代焦虑了我们，还是我们辜负了时代。
What’s wrong with them? What’s wrong with us.